Why They Matter

Buggy matters because groups are not held together only by major events. They are also held together by ordinary hours, familiar names, and recurring jokes.

What They Taught Me

He taught me that joy has its own kind of seriousness. A group can compete, but it also needs people who keep it from becoming only pressure.

What Remains

What remains is warmth: the reminder that people do not have to be impressive all the time to matter.